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    [ Option Method Master Teacher ] Wendy Dolber is the founder of Dialogues in Self Discovery and Director of The Option Method Center.  She is an Option Master Master Teacher, Belief Centered Life Coach, yoga teacher and Reiki practitioner. Wendy ha…   >
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    [ Option Method Master Teacher ] Deborah met her late husband Bruce Di Marsico when she was just beginning her studies as fine arts major at Morris County Community College in Dover, New Jersey. Falling in love with Bruce, she left her artistic pursuits… >

People become unhappy by choice, belief, or judgment. They make a choice of what they’re going…

People become unhappy by choice, belief, or judgment. They make a choice of what they’re going to believe. If they choose to believe it is good, they will feel good. If they choose to believe it is bad, they feel bad. Why am I using the word “choice”? It’s the only thing in life that you can absolutely be sure is not happening to you.

[ Bruce Di Marsico ]