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I have tried lots and lots of different techniques and methods that promise some sort of a change, external or internal, and I have to say they all wo…

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What is love?

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[ Posted on 02.14.2017 ]

Enjoy this classic from Bruce M. Di Marsico on the kind of love we dream about.

“To love is to be happy and do what you want.

Be with.  Don’t be with.

Smile.  Don’t smile.

Be loving.  Don’t be loving.

Be affectionate.  Don’t be affectionate.

Give or say what you want.

Take or ask for what you want.

Do your own thing.

If the one you love gets unhappy, it’s not because you are not loving them enough.  Their happiness does not depend on you.  If you find you want them to be happy, it is because you want it.  It’s not because you are a loving person or feel the need to prove to them that you are loving.

You are loving if you are happy.  You will be loving if you are not afraid.”

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The Option Method is the second-best method I know of for being happy. The first-best method is simp…

The Option Method is the second-best method I know of for being happy. The first-best method is simply to be happy. What The Option Method is for is to help people examine why they believe they need to be unhappy.

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