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+ Flipping reality: Seeing past the boundaries

[ Posted on 05.24.2012 ]

Last night just before waking I had one of those vibrant-image dreams that just stay with you all day. In my dream I walked into my back yard and instead of seeing the neighbors’ driveways, patios, fences, I saw only rolling fields of grass and trees, with houses all around, separate but connected by nature. There I was, sitting under a tree, feeling so safe and completely at peace. I keep remembering this scene over and over because I love it so much. I am so fortunate to have the loveliest back yard with a great little patio surrounded by plants and trees and fences and, well, separation. I like having it but I hardly ever go there. Will I dig it all up and knock the boundaries down? Not likely. It’s not about that at all. It’s about seeing past the boundaries and knowing that no matter what, I…

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The Option Method is the second-best method I know of for being happy. The first-best method is simp…

The Option Method is the second-best method I know of for being happy. The first-best method is simply to be happy. What The Option Method is for is to help people examine why they believe they need to be unhappy.

[ Bruce Di Marsico ]