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+ What is the best way to be politically correct?

[ Posted on 05.03.2016 ]

What is the best way to be politically correct? We want to be inclusive and understanding but we don’t want to feel as if we are tiptoeing on eggshells.  We can inform ourselves as much as possible about the correct way to address people who we identify as different from us. Transgender. Gay. Black. Blind. Handicapped. Autistic. The list goes on and on if we really think about it.  What do you call an unmarried older woman these days? Do people over 65 really like being referred to as elderly? At the end of the day, what difference does it really make if we use the so-called right terminology, if in our hearts and minds, we really are judgmental? If we act from bias instead of inclusiveness? There’s a big difference between caring about saying the right thing to someone who is different and really being totally free of judgment.…

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+ How do you treat your happiness?

[ Posted on 04.06.2016 ]

If you had a beloved child, How would you treat their happiness? Would you ever tell that child that there is something wrong with being happy? Would you ever tell that child that happiness is impossible? Would you ever tell that child to be unhappy in order to get what she wants? No, of course not. Then why do you tell yourself these things? If you had a beloved child, How would you treasure his happiness? Would you allow others to tell your child to stop being so happy? Would you allow others to chastise your child for expressing joy? Would you allow others to angrily push your child aside for being happy? No, of course not. Then why do you do this to yourself? If you had a beloved child, How would you take care of their happiness? Would you make your child’s happiness dependent on others? Would you…

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Happiness is feeling however you choose to feel or experience yourself, and not believing that anyth…

Happiness is feeling however you choose to feel or experience yourself, and not believing that anything makes that wrong.

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