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+ What is your new beginning?

[ Posted on 01.14.2018 ]

Please join me in celebrating new beginnings as 2018 unfolds. What is your new beginning? Are you starting a new job, a new relationship, a new chapter in your life? Are you taking on new responsibilities or moving away from old ones? Are you learning a new skill, changing your diet, setting off on a journey? Or will you celebrate the new beginning that every moment brings? Whatever your new beginning is, know that you bring to it everything you need to have to do it in a way that is “perfect” for you. And by perfect, I mean simply, you bring you to every moment. With all your skills, talents and intentions – and yes, with all your foibles and issues. What else can you do? There is no such thing as not good enough. There is only enough – enough to do what you do in a way…

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+ Registration is Open for Conquer your challenges. Jumpstart your dreams!

[ Posted on 01.03.2017 ]

Early bird registration is open for our winter teleconference series, Conquer Your Challenges. Jumpstart Your Dreams! Do you have a project you just can’t bring to fruition? Are you struggling with work, money or relationship issues? Are you muddling through challenging times?  Do your days seem flat and uneventful? Or are you looking to bring renewed passion and energy to some area of your life?  Sometimes we are more in tune with challenges than in our own dreams and desires. When we only see the bumps in the road, our motivation fizzes and we live in a perpetual holding pattern. If you find yourself feeling helpless, hopeless and at sea, it’s time to learn how to conquer your challenges and wake up your glorious inner potential. In this six-week interactive workshop, we’ll empower you to help yourself to: Break out of the holding pattern of limiting beliefs to: ·         Clear…

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+ What are you holding on to when you hold on to anger?

[ Posted on 05.17.2016 ]

Time heals all wounds, or so it is said. Think about a time when you grieved every day over the loss of a loved one. Think about something that made you so angry you couldn’t stop thinking about it. What about that embarrassing moment so long ago that you thought you would never get over? Do you still feel the same way today? Chances are as with so many things, with time, things change, memories fade and we move on. Unless we don’t. You’re fine until the anniversary of the death of a loved one. You’re at peace until someone reminds you about that thing that made you so angry. You find yourself sharing in the embarrassment of others a little too empathically. If time truly heals all wounds, why are we still suffering? With time, new experiences and the relevancy of the event to daily life, we do move…

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+ Do you love the one you’re with?

[ Posted on 02.13.2016 ]

Love you much? What do you think about you? Would you say you’re your kind of person? Does thinking about you put a warm glow in your heart? Are you okay with you? In love with you? Your own best friend? Or, is that little jury in your inner courtroom always in session? Are you constantly judging and nagging, name-calling and chastising? Are you holding yourself at arm’s length until a better you comes along? Withholding love and acceptance for another day? Another lifetime? How’s that going? Does it matter whether we love ourselves or not? Isn’t that the job of others? Surely that’s one way of looking at it. But is it even possible to feel love, accept love, enjoy the love of others if we don’t love ourselves first? And when we withhold love from ourselves, don’t we often treat others the same way? Not a good set-up…

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+ Can you trust your own intentions?

[ Posted on 01.09.2016 ]

Have you ever believed that you could be against you?  That you can’t trust your own intentions?  That you are capable of not doing your best?  If you have, you know that it is a terrible feeling.  Recently, one of our readers asked Frank Mosca for his thoughts on the subject.  Here is what he said: “I would agree that people are doing the best they can with what they intend. From my perch, people are always and only doing the best they can given what they believe in any given moment. That in any given moment, is a key concept. It means just that. Not before that moment or an instant after, but right now in this instant. So time is an important dimension of the question. We tend to create a continuum out of time which usually includes at a minimum the immediate past and however we conceive…

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Your life as a happy person is the only life you truly want.

[ Bruce Di Marsico ]