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+ The best way to be happy now

[ Posted on 11.21.2018 ]

The Option Method is a fantastic way to change direction when you aren’t feeling the way you want to feel. As quick and effective as it can be, there is even a quicker way to turn yourself around. The first is be happy. Remind yourself that regardless of what you are feeling, your ultimate goal is really to be happy, so why not go there? Ask yourself what you are doing to stand in the way of your happiness? Would it be okay, just for now, to step aside and let it happen? Whatever you think it might cost you, ask yourself if that is really true and see what happens. Second, look at how you are feeling about what you are feeling. Yes, I said, how you are feeling about what you are feeling. Most feelings will pass quickly if we don’t hold onto them. Ever stub your toe?…

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+ Does God exist?

[ Posted on 10.23.2018 ]

Does God exist, does happiness exist, does love exist, does the realization of my deepest desires exist, does my bright and shining future exist, do I even exist as I would love myself to be? From the largest questions to the smallest questions about the nature of what is, what we allow ourselves to strive for, is the only thing that matters. Here’s a beautiful passage by Bruce Di Marsico. Read it once and then go back and apply it to yourself and your own life. “Everybody in the world can give you very good arguments that God does not exist or that happiness does not exist, and that does not stop you from striving for it. That is very in alignment with certain saints who say, “I don’t now whether it’s possible for there to be God or not, but I don’t care. I want there to be, and…

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+ Can The Option Method help with guilt and shame?

[ Posted on 02.16.2018 ]

Our focus this month has been on guilt and shame, two sides of the coin of self judgment.  Do you know the difference?  Check out Google “What is the difference between Guilt and Shame?”  and you will find more than 10 million entries. Brene Brown has a simple way to define it: “the difference between shame and guilt is the difference between ‘I am bad’ and ‘I did something bad’.” I’d go further and say both guilt and shame stem from the belief that I am bad.  Saying I did something bad – in the sense that we feel guilty (or bad) about it, is the same as saying I am bad. Otherwise we would never feel bad about it. We would simply observe – Oh I did something that caused xyz to happen. Think about something you feel guilty about and ask yourself this question: If I didn’t feel…

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+ What is your new beginning?

[ Posted on 01.14.2018 ]

Please join me in celebrating new beginnings as 2018 unfolds. What is your new beginning? Are you starting a new job, a new relationship, a new chapter in your life? Are you taking on new responsibilities or moving away from old ones? Are you learning a new skill, changing your diet, setting off on a journey? Or will you celebrate the new beginning that every moment brings? Whatever your new beginning is, know that you bring to it everything you need to have to do it in a way that is “perfect” for you. And by perfect, I mean simply, you bring you to every moment. With all your skills, talents and intentions – and yes, with all your foibles and issues. What else can you do? There is no such thing as not good enough. There is only enough – enough to do what you do in a way…

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+ The Book of Is! How to be Guided by Being now available

[ Posted on 01.13.2018 ]

I am pleased to announce that The Book of Is! How to be Guided by Being by Frank Mosca, PhD is now available on Amazon. We have produced a Kindle version, as well as a paperback. This little gem is for anyone who wants to explore the nature of Being and the boundless possibilities for happiness that is our essence. In these times of fear-mongering and alienation, here is something that will feed your spirit and infuse your heart with hope and joy. Frank Mosca was my beloved friend and colleague. I had the joy of working with him for several years in our mutual desire to spread Option Method teachings as created by Bruce Di Marsico. We were both passionate that the essential core and practice of the teaching be preserved because they dive right to the heart of all we need to know about what Frank calls Being/Freedom/Happiness.…

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It just so happens that when people realize they have a choice in their emotions, it makes a differe…

It just so happens that when people realize they have a choice in their emotions, it makes a difference to them. People know they don’t want to be unhappy when they don’t believe it is necessary.

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